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Life Lessons from Ron Swanson

Have you ever watched the TV show ‘Parks and Recreation’? If not, I would highly recommend it – especially if you’ve ever worked in the public sector, or if you like mockumentary style shows like ‘The Office’.

I recently finished a catch-up marathon of the show … and so I’m now left impatiently waiting for more episodes … The series centres around Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler), the Deputy Director of the Parks and Recreation Department in the fictional town of Pawnee (a brief aside: Amy Poehler usually irritates the hell out of me, but she has not bothered me once in this show). While Leslie is all enthusiasm and positive thinking, the rest of the ‘Parks and Rec’ team are less so. Having worked in government for many years, I can definitely say that I’ve encountered most of the personalities featured in the show – there’s the ambitious at any cost, the lazy, the uncooperative, the stickler for the rules, and of course you just can’t go past all that red tape. Aside from the natural comedy created by the ridiculousness of government structure and policy, the character’s interactions with each other are also lots of fun … and of course, there’s plenty of romance and relationship tensions to keep things extra interesting.

All of the characters are wonderful in their own way, but my absolute favourite of them all would have to be the Department’s Director, Ron Swanson – he hates government and how it operates, but he’s also a fascinating and rather sweet guy. The most perfect thing about Ron Swanson (well apart from his incredible moustache and unexpected after-hours talents) are the insights he offers into the people around him. In speaking to Leslie about why she might be feeling dissatisfied with her current boyfriend, he had this to say:

‘He’s a tourist. He vacations in people’s lives, takes pictures, puts them in his scrapbook, and moves on. All he’s interested in are stories. Basically, Leslie, he’s selfish. And you’re not. That’s why you don’t like him.’

This statement just blew me away. I’ve known (and still do know) a few people like this. The kind of people that are only interested in you as part of a ‘network’ or using you as a signpost to finding a better place in the world for themselves. Often such people are completely lovely and don’t actually mean any harm, but personally I’d much rather devote my time and energy to people that really want to know and understand me. Give me real relationships and genuine interactions every single time.

How about you? Have you ever come across these ‘tourists’ or acquaintance ’collectors?

Designing Grandness

Every once in a while you find a TV show that is all at once easy-to-watch, interesting, inspiring and calming … The kind of show that you can lose yourself within, but still feel like you’ve used your time semi-productively. This is how I feel about ‘Grand Designs’. Have you watched it?

Basically each episode follows the progress of creative residential building projects from start to finish. Often in pursuit of their dream homes, people push their budgets, imaginations, relationships and mental health to the limit … sometimes they succeed, sometimes they don’t, and more often than not they end up somewhere in-between.

I was recently gifted the DVD box set of the show, which includes a massive 17 discs and 63 episodes!! I’ve only ever previously watched the show rather haphazardly, catching the odd episode here and there … but now I’m taking great joy in watching each and every episode in order and in their entirety.

Kevin McCloud is pretty damn wonderful as the show’s charming and thoughtful host … and most people I know fall at least a little bit in love with both him and his fascinating show. Perhaps you have plans for your own ‘Grand Design’ in the future, or maybe you just like finding out about other people’s often incredible ‘Grand Designs’ … either way I can assure you this is one show (and one DVD box set) that will not disappoint.

Aside from writing, I’m also watching

(Not in a creepy way though …)

While my days have been filled with the trials of the dreaded ‘day job’, and my early evenings have started to fill with the sound of a tapping keyboard thanks to NaNoWriMo, my later evenings have been devoted to watching ‘The Office’.

I’ve long been a fan of the original British version, so it’s only recently that I’ve come to appreciate the American version which stars Steve Carell as Michael Scott (the boss who has proved to be just as painful to watch as Ricky Gervais’ David Brent).

As a general rule I never much approve of American versions of successful British shows or movies. That’s probably why I’ve previously been a little resistant to give the Amercian interpretation of ‘The Office’ a go. I have to say though, that after tentatively launching into Season 1 over the weekend, I am well and truly hooked!

I work in an office, so I love how ‘true’ both versions of the show are to those situations and stereotypes which are often encountered in that common, yet strange work environment. The American version has the luxury of more time to explore the characters and their relationships, and it’s that aspect (aside from the comedy), which has been particularly enjoyable.

Sometimes I have to remind myself that things you think may be the same, can actually turn out to be quite different … and that’s OK. I really shouldn’t be so quick to judge.

The owls are not what they seem …

In fact, a lot of things are not what they seem. For instance, when I first started writing this post, it was actually going to be about something completely different … Then I started thinking about other things that aren’t what they seem, like the owls in ‘Twin Peaks’ … from there my post began to transform into something else entirely.

I love Twin Peaks. When the show first came out (in 1990 – 2o years ago!!), I was an avid fan … I adored the weird and wonderful world created by David Lynch, and the characters were unlike any I’d seen before. I kind of fell a little in love with Agent Cooper (and his cups of joe and damn fine slices of cherry pie). Mr Quiet Paws is yet to finish watching Season 2 with me (can you believe it?), so I won’t be sharing any spoilers here.

Something I will share here is some loveliness from etsy which returned me to the world of Twin Peaks once more … care to visit with me?

Top Row (left to right):

  1. Douglas Fir Fine Art Photograph by DaogreerEarthWorks – a convenient way to ‘smell those trees, smell those Douglas firs’.
  2. Woody the Log Pillow by emeraldbumblebee – become your very own log lady with this adorable pillow .
  3. Love at First Sight by slowindustries – just like a little printed reminder of the goodies on offer at the ‘Double R Diner’ or the Sheriff’s Department.

Bottom Row (left to right):

  1. Slice of Felt Cherry Pie by lisajhoney – I seem to remember Agent Cooper telling Diane (via voice recorder), ‘they got a cherry pie here that’ll kill ya’. I’m pretty sure this version is non-lethal.
  2. The log lady by seasprayblue – ponder just what her log wants to tell you (I purchased one of these prints for my brother last year).
  3. Owl Gadget Case by BoutiqueID – did you figure out just what those owls were up to? This angry little fellow will at least keep your gadgets safe.

I wanted to leave you with another favourite quote from Agent Cooper, as it seems a lovely parting thought for a Friday.

‘Harry, I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Every day, once a day, give yourself a present. Don’t plan it. Don’t wait for it. Just let it happen. It could be a new shirt at the men’s store, a catnap in your office chair, or two cups of good, hot black coffee.’

Be sure to take his advice, and give yourself a present today.

Are you ready to rumble (or get divorced)?

So the Amazing Race is finally coming to Australia for a locally produced version … While it’s one reality show that I have actually watched (for the travel destinations and the relationship fireworks), I’ve never been tempted to actually appear on the show myself. Though perhaps you think differently?

Casting couples for the Australian version of the show is well underway, with entries closing today. As for the prize, well it’s described as being a ‘massive cash prize’ … whatever that means? (perhaps the local prize will be significantly less than the usual $1 million?).

While I have no doubt that Mr Quiet Paws and I would be entertaining to watch (we’d be that crazy couple that ALWAYS seem to disagree and have massive meltdowns when things don’t go their way), I’ve managed to resist submitting an application myself.

Much like playing Super Mario on the Wii with your significant other, I personally feel that entering ‘The Amazing Race’ as a happily married couple is just asking for trouble (mega-divorce mode anyone?).

If however you do decide to enter, I’ll wish you the very best of luck and hope your relationship survives unscathed (or at least makes for some great tv).

Pre-destined for ‘the good life’ … (or how 1970s British TV comedies may have written my future)

Perhaps like many people around my age, I watched a lot of old-school British comedies when I was growing up. The entire list of programs would run very long indeed (and probably stretch my memory too far), but off the top of my head I remember diligently watching Fawlty Towers, Are You Being Served?, George & Mildred, Man About the House, The Goodies, and Some Mothers Do ‘Ave ‘Em …

However, there was one show in particular that always seemed to hold a place near and dear to my heart, ‘The Good Life’. I’m not sure whether it was because of the animals, the plot, the contrasting couples or whether I found the show genuinely amusing … whatever the reason it’s a program I always look back at fondly.

I was wondering whether this early education in ‘The Good Life’ set me on a particular path to dream myself towards a lifestyle lived in somewhat similar vein??

This may be the reason why I’ve been craving once more the means to grow things, to live more simply, to be a little more self-sufficient and to surround myself with lots and lots of warm, cuddly, living things. The first project in mind is to tackle the dreaded back garden which I’ve been meaning to transform (with a lot of hard work) into a vegetable, herb and fruit growing paradise … as you can see for the present moment I’m still very much in the planning phase.

While it’s likely true that I’ll always be a city girl, from time to time I dream about running away to the country, far away from most everyone and everything. There’s still every chance that one day those dreamy thoughts will be realised (Tom and Barbara would be so very proud!).

Things I have loved about Lost

There have been many television shows which have won me over heart and soul with their characters, their writing and their storylines (such as Buffy, Angel, and Love My Way). Over the years spent in the company of these shows there haven often been ups and downs in terms of the quality of the episodes or the twists and turns taken by the plot – in fact it’s just something I’ve come to expect from any television show.

All that changed when a little program called ‘Lost’ swept its way into my life. I have been completely smitten with the world and mysteries of ‘Lost’ from day one. Notice how I didn’t mention my feelings towards the characters? Well there’s a reason for that … oh my, those characters … where to begin?

To say that I came to care for those characters feels like a serious understatement, especially considering I’ve cared for many a television character in the past. The ‘Lost’ experience was so very different and made those characters a part of my world in much the same way as I became a part of theirs. After recently watching the heartbreakingly beautiful and exceedingly wonderful ‘Lost’ series finale I find that I’m missing so many of those characters already. I’m already making future plans to watch the entire six seasons all over again.

The things I most love about ‘Lost’ (and therefore miss the most):

John Locke’s smile and hearing Desmond say, ‘brother’:

Jack’s stubbornness and Sawyer’s determination (and his relationship with Juliet):

Sayid’s calm capability (and relationship with Shannon), and hearing the rustling of plants which signified Vincent’s approach:

… Pretty much everyone:

I’m feeling somewhat emotionally drained tonight now that the ‘Lost’ journey is complete, but also feeling so very satisfied by the ending. I’m sure my poor heavy heart will soon recover in time for another viewing …

For the love of Don Draper (& other Mad Men).

It wouldn’t be too inaccurate a statement to say that I pretty much adore everything about this show. Apart from providing a fascinating insight into the world during the 1960s, Mad Men delivers consistently interesting plots played out by a fine cast of actors.

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The visual authenticity of the show is achieved through a combination of impeccable costuming and set designs which are styled to absolute perfection. Everything looks right, and when scenes come to life with the presence of the actors, everything feels right.

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I heard about this beautiful Vanity Fair editorial (The Ultimate Mad Men Summer-Break Album) some time ago, but only recently managed to find it within the September 2009 issue. The photographs are quite simply stunning! Despite the madness that seems to be Annie Leibovitz’s life, I absolutely adore her photography.

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The photographs accompany a great article about the show’s creator Matthew Weiner, and the casting of Jon Hamm and January Jones as Don and Betty Draper.

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If I was forced to choose a favourite character, it would be an easy answer for me – Don Draper would be the winner of such a contest. I love him for so many reasons, but perhaps this could best be said as, ‘I love him for the man that he almost is’.

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Anyway, I just felt the need to share these beautiful images. Perhaps you’re a fan of the show yourself, or perhaps you adore finely styled photography… either way, I hope you enjoy!

PS. I’m laying much blame at the feet of Mad Men for my recent re-discovery and love of all things that are ‘the dress’…a happy curse to be burdened with indeed…

Ten Lessons to Learn From Gordon Ramsay

Title creditWhat is it about restaurant inspired reality television shows that makes them so irresistible? Is it because they deal in food, that essential replenisher and comforter of all? …possibly… Is it because against the fire of the kitchen hotplate and the starched white tablecloths of the restaurant, the true character of a person will be revealed? …maybe… Is it because they give insight into a world primarily hidden from the consuming public’s eye? …likely… Or is it because restaurant kitchens seem to be filled with some of the most charismatic, dynamic and downright entertaining personalities? …definitely…

Apart from the culinary skills which can often be learnt from the chefs that appear on such shows, there are other more fundamental life lessons to be gained. A recent addition to the suite of restaurant reality television programs which I enjoy is ‘Gordon Ramsay’s Kitchen Nightmares’. Sure he can be a bit rough and a bit gruff around the edges, but his love of good food and the consideration he shows to those really willing to make an effort, make his show utterly compelling viewing.

Thinking more on this idea of the broader educational benefits of Gordon Ramsay’s show, I’ve come up with a top ten list of lessons or ideals which are reinforced for me week after week. This is not to say that the list should be limited to ten items, but it always seems such a nice balanced place to stop, unless of course you’re speaking of something in the deadly sins variety where seven is a much better fit.

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Lesson Number 1 – Passion: Loving what you do.
There is a huge difference between working in a job to just pass the time and pay the bills, and working at a job because you’re just so damn excited about what it has to offer. Without this fire to ignite your wildest dreams, work becomes a hindrance, a pain which gets in the way of you enjoying your ‘real’ life. In working at something you love, your ‘dream’ life and your ‘real’ life can merge into one wonderful cohesive existence.

Lesson Number 2 – Communication: Keeping people informed.
When the kitchen doesn’t speak to the service area and when the kitchen staff don’t speak to eachother, a restaurant falls apart. Without the maintenance of open communication channels, each of us ends up working in a vacuum and wonders why it is that other people keep messing up so badly. It is important that we share what is on our minds with others and keep people constantly informed of what is required and expected of them, both for our own wellbeing and for our overall success in life.

Lesson Number 3 – Leadership: Leading by example.
You cannot expect people to always know the correct path to follow or the best way to approach a task. Strong direction must come from some external source, and must be reliable, trustworthy and responsible. What is done at the top of a team filters through to those below, and so the leader must shoulder the burden of inspiring and invigorating others with their unwavering committment to the team and to the task at hand.

Lesson Number 4 – Professionalism: Maintaining high standards.Fruit
There is no success to come from laziness. It only takes one bad experience to put a customer off and stop them from returning forever more. Professional standards should be not only reflected in yourself, they should also be reflected in the output of your chosen field. To quote the old cliche, nothing is worth doing if it is not done right.

Lesson Number 5 – Attitude: Remember the power of emotion.
The way you approach your work and your life will impact on what you can achieve. Attitude is contagious. If you bring a negative, expecting-to-fail attitude to the table, you can be pretty sure that your results will be in a similar vein. On the other hand, if you expect to win and strive to achieve, your results will no doubt be much more positive. Mistakes are a natural part of life, but it is how we pick ourselves up again which really shows the kind of people that we are.

Lesson Number 6 – Simplicity: The simplest approach is often the best.
It is often thought that the best recipes are filled with a myriad of complex ingredients which are prepared in an overly intricate way to culminate in an amazing culinary experience for the diner. And of course when gourmet complexity is matched by an equally well developed chef, wonderful things can happen. However in breaking down tasks to their purest essentials, we can get at the real crux of things. Does anyone else remember Gordon’s wonderful broccoli soup which had just one ingredient…broccoli.

Lesson Number 7 – Aesthetics: Appearance matters.
It can be hard to summon the right motivation to be a good leader, to maintain a positive outlook and work towards exceptional outcomes if no care is given to the appearance of things. Such things include the way we present ourselves to the world in grooming and clothes, the way we reflect ourselves in the appearance of our house and possessions, and also in the appearance of our finished product whether that is a plate of food or a well written report. As sad as it may be to admit, everything we do in life will be judged in some way, shape or form, so it is vital that the visual message we convey is what we had intended to communicate.

Lesson Number 8 – Pride: Celebrate your achievements.
There is no sense in working at something day in and day out, if no time is taken to reflect on what has been achieved, and more importantly take note of what has been done well. As we spend so much of our time focussed on the negatives, it is only when we recognise the positives that we can truly appreciate how far we have come in our professional field, or how far we have come in life.

Table settingLesson Number 9 – Consideration: Care for others.
Whatever improvements are made to a restaurant, its food, or its staff, it will all be for nothing if no time is given to understand the unique situation of the people involved. This concern which Gordon shows for the people he is trying to help is fundamental to the success of his series. He offers no quick fixes, it is all about long term solutions which work with, not against the restaurant owners and staff. It is a reminder that our life outside work must be where we want it to be, before we can truly commit to our life within the walls of work.

Lesson Number 10 – Respect: Recognising the contribution of others.
Successful restaurants are built around successful teams, and such teams can only exist when the contributions of each of its members are recognised and respected. A leader without respect is no leader at all, and similarly a team that does not respect eachother will achieve only limited results.

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As mentioned previously this is not meant to be a prescriptive list, it is merely compiled from watching too many hours of Gordon Ramsay’s television work. So have my reasons for compulsively watching restaurant-related reality television been properly determined? …definitely not…Whatever the real answer may be, there is no doubt in my mind that I will keep watching…and learning.

Captain Jack Harkness was right

Jack HarknessTogether at last! What a beautiful day you are 7th July 2007. We live in auspicious times indeed!! Do you know how special you are? Did you know that I long sensed your approach and held you often in my thoughts?

Captain Jack Harkness, that most delicious traveller of time and space has many a clever thing to say about life. But did he know how right he would be when he said:

The 21st century is when everything changes, and you gotta be ready‘.

He obviously knew just what I now know, but perhaps we were speaking of unrelated things…a trivial difference.

Dealing as he does with the interests of Torchwood, perhaps he speaks of things on a grander scale, actions with consequences that have global or universal impacts. No doubt he has knowledge of such things that I cannot and will never know or fully understand. I take comfort that at least one of us has an awareness of such matters and will act appropriately to the circumstances of the hour.

But did he know that it is on this day that everything will change for me? A personal day of reckoning if you will. Some time ago I remember reflecting on things that I had not yet done or achieved in my life – some minor things, some major things. As I committed those words to the permanency of the black and white world, I somehow sensed that it would be in this, the thirtieth year of my life that the world would shift, leaving me never quite the same again.

While my thoughts were looking to the past at what had not yet come to be, my eyes was also turned to the unknown future, to what was still yet to be. That was when we found eachother, seventh of July. Your grouping of sevens felt permanently real, incredibly significant, and yet somehow within my reach. I knew that just as I was moving towards you, you were moving towards me. A soulmate in the timeline of my life.

The world is in a state of constant change, the moon waxes and wanes, the sea rises and falls, the stars twinkle and die, the earth wears away. Such events are always unfolding around us, even though the results may be imperceptible to us on our short timescales. While such change may be slow, continual or hard to appreciate in human terms, this does not mean that it is not happening. Jack knows just what I mean.

Captain Jack Standing TallHuman change in physical terms can be more readily gauged. We see people do things such as grow taller, gain muscle, alter their hair colour, update their wardrobe or put on weight. But what about those changes that occur below the surface? Those things that are important to each of us. Those things that we want from and for ourselves in this life. Those things that perhaps we never share with others and only whisper softly to ourselves in the darkest hours of the night. Those things that may be regarded by others as unimportant or commonplace. What others think is of course of no consequence. Life sets us all on a different path and there is no way of judging another person’s journey from the outside as their experiences, hopes, triumphs and tragedies, can never fully be my own. I like to think that Jack would understand this too…he’s perceptive like that.

Some of the things that happen in life will be good, some will be bad. It’s not really up to us to choose how things will unfold. To be open to the good, will also open you up to the bad, that is simply the balance of life. Up until this year I had never made an overseas phone call (got to speak to the wonderful Fionn Regan some months ago in Brighton), never broken a bone in my body (overcame that with a broken ankle), never been published (some of my articles appeared in a free press publication) and never knew how to knit properly (a completed scarf is evidence of this rediscovered skill).

There are many other things that are on the list of what I still want to achieve this year. There are also things to be written on a list that I cannot see, a collection of things that will happen in the future that I had not planned for. But such is the unexpected experience that is this life. As dark and disturbing as it can sometimes be, I doubt whether I would change a single thing…even if I had the chance. We learn so much from the good and the bad without even knowing it, that I would hate to turn my back on any of the lessons that I have learnt. They have all been too important in bringing me to this point in time.

So here we are, you and me. You – this one unique day early in July at the beginning of the 21st century where everything will change. And me – well I’m here and I’m ready. Thanks for reminding me Jack.